For most of my childhood Thanksgiving was a singular memory:
a road trip from my home in Northeastern Ohio to my grandmother’s home in the
Allegheny mountains of Eastern Pennsylvania. The drive took us 8 long hours as we followed a two lane
state highway that meandered in and around the mountains of the region, and the
tiny towns that dotted the hillsides and valleys of Northeastern
Pennsylvania.
I curled up with my comic books and pillows in the back seat
and my father drove over mostly dry roads up steep mountains, around hairpin turns, and through small towns. We did hit a snow storm now
and then, and I watched as my parents silently worried as they hit icy mountain roads and went across bridges in the rain and sleet and snow of the nascent
winter driving season.
I came to know and love the towns along that road: Coudersport,
Wellsboro, Towanda, Wyalusing, Wysox. Each had its own quaint charm: a river, a
town square, a plaque honoring a civil war hero, store front diners and craft
stores, an entire store dedicated to selling Christmas decorations. Each town, always decked out for the
coming holidays with wreathes and garland, seemed like they had a special
welcome for us as we had to slow the car to accommodate the sudden drop to a 35
mile an hour speed limit.
We rarely stopped except to get gas. Delicious food, including my
grandmother’s special recipe sugar cookies, were waiting at the end of the
line, no need for anything until we got there. Of course we were all impatient too. I am sure I said, “how much longer till we get there?” the requisite 100
times, after every stop light and lane change.
Somewhere in my young adulthood when trips to Grandmother’s
house changed to trips to my Aunt’s (Grandma died in 1984), my parents began
taking the new interstate that opened up just north of Route 6. It shaved two hours off their driving
time. It was then I realized that
the long slow meandering drive through the small towns of Pennsylvania was probably
the best part about our annual Thanksgiving pilgrimage. Oh, I loved seeing my family and eating
all that great food, that was always important, but the getting there by that
slow beautiful drive became a touchstone for me.
Thanksgiving reminds me of those times
in my parent’s car, watching the towns go by, wondering what it was like to
live in Laceyville, Pennsylvania next to the Susquehanna river. I can still hear the sound of the car
as it slowed to turn the corner.
Of course, all the drives we take now are fast and
efficient. There is no other way
to get where we go, and of course I miss the slow road: the anticipation of
what waited at the end, the intimacy of small towns even for strangers passing
through, and the sites and sounds of other places and times. I have promised myself that
the next time I take route 6, I am definitely stopping to shop at the Christmas
store and reading that Civil War marker, and maybe even stopping for pie at
some town diner. I really hope it is all still there waiting for me.
Amy for the Poplar Grove Muse
Amy for the Poplar Grove Muse
This brings back the aura of my childhood, and our long car trips to visit various relatives from our remote Midwestern locale, so completely and hauntingly. I feel that my girls will never know the "leisurely pace" at which we had the luxury to come into ourselves. MKP
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